i copied-pasted it from my previous blog.. and wish i can share it here. this kinda lame, but i like it because it speaks about reality. ow yah, i forgot to tell you; im easily disgusted by hypocrites!
do girls need guys more, or guys need girls more? there’ll be an endless answer to it.
practically, they need each other; that’s true.
girls can’t live without guys, and the same thing apply to guys. but why is that so?
the main theory is just that you can’t live alone. i highlighted the word alone here because it said alone, not the opposite sex.
thinking logically, girls can live with the help of other girls, no guys help needed. isn’t that true? well, of course get real; take out that thinking about making offspring and so on, i know that can only be happen with the help of the opposite sex.
but apart from making offspring, technically we can live without the opposite sex, true?
i’m just trying to be open, and get honest with myself; this theory doesn’t resemblance me at all. there are times when i think that life would be much more happier if i’m the only girl alive in this world, and the rest are guys. oh.. i’ll be so pampered and many will idolize me! =D
take a minute to think.. if you’re facing a problem, who will you tend to tell the first? will it be your closest partner from the same sex or from the opp sex? let’s say you have 2 besties : Ms. A and Mr. B, and you’re a girl. who will you ring for the first time when you face troubles / you found something very interesting? who will be the first to inform? i bet it’ll be Mr. B.
well, of course making sure that problems / the interesting stuff is not a ‘girls business’ or ‘guys business’.
then.. when you feel so bloody down and you just feel trapped, who will you wish to take care and comfort you? will that be your best friend from the same sex? well ya that might be right, but it’ll help more if the friend from the opp sex is the one to pamper you, true? well.. i just don’t want to be a hypocrite and telling this openly.
im a girl, so i first thought that guys are superheroes. they can easily cheer girls up, do things that girls can’t do. but after i take a deeper look, same thing apply to guys.
guys too, they feel that the opp sex are angels, the helping hands that they always wish for.
all these while i’ve been thinking, and i couldn’t find the answer for this mystery. why is that so? why are we easily touched and attracted by the opp sex and things couldn’t apply the same to the same sex.. why is that so? well, im not talking about that love relationship.. but, you know..
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have you ever been in the situation where you’re away with a group of friends, and all of them are your friends from the same sex. well you can go cheers and be happy, but don’t you feel something is missing?
let’s get to a real example. my best friend broke up a while ago.. when she broke up, i tried to comfort her, i tried to text her, i tried to ring her.. on the phone she said, "im busy right now, i’ll ring you back in short while." & i waited for the call for hours till i decided to call again, then she answered quickly and said, "i’ve got to go to work, i’m sorry but i’ve to hung up, maybe next time then we can chat." that time, honestly i feel a bit sad cos she didn’t accept my good deeds. but at the same time i’m happy, she’s busy and so she might not have the time to be sad and to remember about this stupid guy who pissed her off. but then i still feel that this won’t do, so i texted my girl-friend who is also her good friend, and asked her to comfort her too. she did text her, but there was no reply too. we tried to call her online on msn and there was only a short reply.. the image that we got it’s like she didn’t want to talk much that time, and we are ok with that.
after a while i figured out that right after she broke up, she called this particular guy (her guy-friend) and cried to this guy and told him about anything, and he comforted her.
after that he (this guy-friend) texted me asking me to take care of her cos she needs accompanion desperately. i told him the situation that i had already tried but i found her running away from me, same thing to my other girl-friend.
from that day, we know during that down season of her, she didn’t really need us to comfort her. she just need us to listen to all her stories, and so she can feel a bit light. but she doesn’t really need us to pamper her. instead she needs a guy-friend to comfort her, not a girl-friend.
well, you might say that my friend is cheeky and naughty. but take a look at yourself.. have you ever been in her position and what did u do? aren’t you just the same like her..?
i asked my self this question, and i got the same reply to what she did. maybe if i was her, i will not need a girl-friend at that time to accompany me, instead i might need a guy-friend to comforts me. not because im hunger for the guys’ touch, but you know… i can say that guys understand girls better than girls understand girls. don’t you guys think the same way too? girls understand you guys more than boys understand you. isn’t that true?
one more concrete example, you’re facing this current problem, and 2 people give you solutions. one is ms.A and the other one is ms.B, if you’re a girl you’ll tend to listen to mr.A more, you’ll take this solutions heavily and really put that to mind. isn’t that so?
thinking about all these.. i can never stop wondering why.. WHY??
that’s a mystery that live keeps.
now i began to understand why God created Eve to accompany Adam, not Adi, or any guy.. because most of the time, we need the opp sex more than we need our friends from the same sex. don’t talk about marriage, don’t talk about love, it still that way, it’s the same law apply.
girls couldn’t live without guys, and guys can’t live without girls. no wonder they make the perfect match. =)
…… life is full of mystery. that is also why girls fight more with guys too, not with girls. all the stitches in girls heart mostly made by guys, not girls.. and the same thing apply to guys too. isn’t that true?
the opposite sex : the source of happiness and the source of all the sorrows and sadness.
but let’s take a look at this equation:
HAPPINESS + SADNESS = LIFE
ahaha.. you know what i mean! =P
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